What's On My Mind
by David Smith

* This is re-printed from April 3, 2014

The Princess and Superman


He stands 6’10” tall and is a monster of a man.   She is probably no more than 4’ tall.   

He weighs 240 lbs.  She is but a waif, most likely between 50 and 60 lbs.

He is 23 years old.  She is 8. 

He is a gifted basketball player and will be a 1st round draft pick in this year’s NBA draft.   She is just a child who is fighting for her life.  

He calls her Princess.  She calls him her Superman.  

Their unlikely friendship is a refreshing story in a world that, well, just needs more refreshing stories.  

Their friendship began three years ago during a routine hospital visit by the Michigan State Men’s Basketball team.    Hospital visits are common in college athletics, serving to connect the athletes to their community and allowing them to use their “local celebrity” to brighten the lives of kids and adults at a time when they need it the most.   East Lansing is a real basketball town, and the team is extremely popular.   The players enjoy an exalted position within the community.  Patients who receive a visit are thrilled, and occasionally, the players walk away from the experience having benefited far more than the patients that they visited.  

Lacey Holsworth was just 6 years old when she was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, an insidious form of nerve cancer.   Lacey had developed tumors that involved a kidney and wrapped around her spine.  Two months after being diagnosed, Lacey was in Lansing’s Sparrow Hospital, recovering from surgery and paralyzed from the waist down.  That was when the Spartan basketball team came to visit. 

Lacey and her family are basketball fans and the irrepressible girl certainly enjoyed the visit by the team.  At the end of the visit, she locked onto the biggest guy in the room and asked him to stay with her a little longer.  When asked later why she chose Adreian Payne, she said it was his smile.

Without hesitation, Payne stayed and began an improbable story.   When Adriean left the hospital later that day, he asked Lacey’s dad for his phone number so that he could check in on Lacey.  Matt Holsworth didn’t expect the college kid to actually follow-up.   But Payne did.   Lacey’s mother recently said in a TV interview that Adreian walked into their family and didn’t leave. 

The Princess and Superman have become inseparable.  They text and call each other almost every day.  Adreian is a frequent visitor to the Holsworth home where Lacey’s room is adorned with pictures of Adreian and his teammates.  They hang out and watch movies.  She bakes him brownies.  Payne, and some of the other Spartans wear a “Pray for Lacey” band when they play.    When able, Lacey frequents the Spartan’s practices and games.  The year she was a guest of honor at the end of the season basketball banquet.
 
Lacey’s two year battle with cancer has had its ups and down.   Despite victories along the way, the tumors have returned and spread.    She has been through chemotherapy and now radiation therapy.   She is scheduled to begin an experimental treatment in the near future.  Through it all, Payne has been there with her.     He was there earlier this year when she awoke from surgery.  

During this past month’s Senior Night celebration, when Payne was introduced to the Breslin Center crowd, he walked on to the court hand-in-hand with Lacey and her parents.   

A week later, when the Spartans won the Big Ten Tournament, and it was his turn to climb the ladder to cut down the net, Adreian picked up Lacey and gave her the privilege of helping to cut it down net. 

Though folks in this mid-Michigan community have been aware of Lacey’s story over the past two years, only recently did Lacey and Adreian start to receive significant attention---and in the most unique way.  Jay Bilas, popular basketball analyst, is well known for his very active Twitter account.   He has over 600,000 followers, and until recently he followed no one.   Until he heard about Lacey and Adreian.   Now he follows one person, @adorablelacey. 

In the past two weeks, as Michigan State fought their way through the NCAA Basketball Tournament in their quest for a National Championship, the story of this unlikely pair took center stage with coverage by most major networks and newspapers from here to Europe.   Spartan alumni have taken to the internet to raise money for Lacey’s medical expenses with over $30,000 raised as of last week.  

On Sunday, with their loss to Connecticut in the Elite 8 round of the tournament, Payne’s dream of a championship came to end.   Shortly after the game, he and disappointed Spartan fans were picked up by a simple tweet from an 8 year old princess. “Family over Everything,” Lacey tweeted.  

How did she get to be so smart, so young?  



The Princess and her Superman cut down the net at the Big Ten Tournament. 










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